BJ and Jill Sanders
  • Home
  • About
  • Give
  • Photos
  • Subscribe
  • Contact


Day 11 of 21: Life here

July 18, 2014 by BJ and Jill Sanders

I know you guys loved the last time I did this when we lived in M adang…So without further ado…here are some ways you can relate to us in bush orientation!

 

Our House:

*We live in a house that is about 380 sq. feet in size.   It’s a little small for a family of 5, but it works for us and has been good bonding time!

*We have a kitchen, table and chairs, bathroom (with a bathtub!), a couch that folds into a bed (ours), and a room divided with a curtain where all 3 kids sleep!

*Our fridge stopped working the 3rd day we got here, but we can use the other missionaries’.

*We have tried to train our kids to be really quiet when they wake up, so they don’t wake the others up.  So when they wake up, they climb into our bed.  Now our bed is a little smaller than a double bed…so every morning, we have 4 people in our bed!!  Cozy!!

*We have found that we did not pack enough warm clothes at night.  It is FREEZING!  At least we are learning this now, so we can prepare for our own tribe.

*WE use a twin tub washer to wash our clothes.  It’s a combination of the old days of washing and wringing out your clothes, and the modern days where we have automatic.  Now most of you won’t be able to relate to this, but we hang our clothes up on the line to dry!  Most days, it gets cloudy by noon and our clothes don’t dry.

*We have a working toilet, but there is a saying to conserve water: “If it’s yellow, let it mellow.  If it’s brown, flush it down!

Our bush house for the month!
Our kitchen...we loved it!
And the rest of our house! The kitchen is behind the fridge (lower left). The bathroom is the door on the left. The kids room is behind the purple curtain. And our couch/bed is to the right of the curtain!
Behind the purple curtain...all 3 kids fast asleep (actually, I think Olivia is pretending!)

Now for some other things about this culture:

*Kakaruk- This is the pidgin word for rooster.  Most of you are like us and thought that roosters crow as the sun comes up.  That’s true, but they also crow alllll the time…especially when our kids are sleeping.  So they come right outside our window and crow at 4 in the morning forever!  And then they crow during our kids’ nap!  One time, BJ picked up a rock and was about to “toss” it over in the general direction of the rooster.  Then, the owner came over to talk to BJ and was telling him that was his rooster.  BJ slyly put the rock behind his back!!

*Do you remember what “susu” is in pidgin?  Well, women nurse their kids all the time, and they don’t use coverups!  Any time their kids come to them, they nurse them.  It has become just a normal thing…almost.

*The people here wash in the rivers, creeks, or waterfall.  It’s a little different than M adang, because they could immerse in the ocean.  So they are a little dirtier here!

*People grow their food in gardens, which consist of sweet potato, taro, pumpkins, and greens.  They are so nice and bring us food all the time!  And you cannot throw it away, or it’s offensive!  So we give it to the kids or I have a friend who said I could secretly give it to her if I don’t want it!

*Last thing, we have to hike everywhere.  The terrain is very hilly here.  It’s quite beautiful!  We had to hike 30 minutes to a friend’s house the other night in the rain.  We also have to hike there and back to church…30 minutes…and I assure you…it’s up hill both ways!

The rugged terrain
Hiking in the rain
Hiking everywhere. Since we have 3 kids, we can't one on one...So Andrew (the missionary here) would carry Olivia when she was tired!

We can find “entertaining” things about everywhere we have lived, but overall, we felt right at home.  The house was a little stretching to live in for a month, but we are so thankful that the Goud’s (click here for their website!) let us come in and intrude!  After bush orientation, some people realize that they don’t want to do tribal missions anymore…so we are thrilled that we are even more excited about moving forward in prayerfully choosing a tribe to allocate in!

Filed Under: 21 days in the tribe

More Posts:

« Day 10 of 21: Fear
Day 12 of 21: What to believe »

Comments

  1. Scott says

    July 19, 2014 at 12:43 pm

    BJ, do you want me to mail you your blowgun for the roosters? I think dad still has them in storage – he never throws anything away.

Click below to view our Dossier!

  • All Posts
  • Home
  • About
  • Blog
  • Home
  • Give
  • Photos
  • Subscribe
  • Contact

Disclaimer: This personal ministry website is provided by Ethnos360 as a courtesy to its members. Ethnos360 makes no warranty regarding the accuracy of the information on these pages. Opinions expressed are provided by members in good faith, but are entirely those of the member and do not necessarily represent policy, doctrinal position, or opinions of Ethnos360. If you encounter information that you consider questionable, please e-mail the Ethnos360 web team.

BJ and Jill Sanders

© Copyright 2025 Ethnos360. All rights reserved.

Log In

  • 
  • 