Whose Story Are You Living?

Reading: 2 Samuel 16:5–12

Key Verse: 2 Samuel 16:12 — “It may be that the Lord will look upon my misery and restore me to His covenant blessing instead of His curse today.”

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

We all tell ourselves stories—about others, about ourselves, about what’s happening around us. But not every story is true. And not every story is our Father’s.

In 2 Samuel 16, we see three very different stories playing out:

• Shimei’s story: He curses David, convinced that David is getting what he deserves for stealing Saul’s throne (vv.5–7). His version is bitter, accusatory, and blind to the Father’s anointing.
• Abishai’s story: He sees Shimei’s insults and wants swift justice. “Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king?” (v.9). His story is reactive, protective, and driven by loyalty—but not necessarily wisdom.
• David’s story: He sees something deeper. “Let him curse, for the Lord has told him to do it… Leave him alone… It may be that the Lord will look upon my misery and restore me…” (vv.10–12). David’s story is humble, surrendered, and open to his Father’s refining work—even through unjust criticism.

Scripture Insight:

Each of us interprets the moment through our own lens. Shimei saw judgment. Abishai saw offense. David saw opportunity for grace.

David doesn’t defend himself. He doesn’t retaliate. He entrusts his reputation and restoration to God. Sounds like what Peter said of Jesus in 1 Peter 2:24! This is the story the Father honors.

Application:

• When you’re criticized, or disappointed by someone, pause: whose story are you believing?
• Resist the urge to retaliate or defend.
• Ask: could the Father be using this moment to refine me?
• Choose humility over retaliation. Let God write the ending.

Prayer:

Lord, help me surrender my story to You. When others accuse or misunderstand, teach me to respond with grace. May I trust Your justice, Your timing, and Your voice above all.

Reflection Questions:

• What story are you telling yourself about a current conflict?
• Is it shaped by pride, fear, or surrender?
• How might your Father be inviting you to see the situation differently?
• What would it look like to let Him write the story?