{"id":1015,"date":"2012-05-17T10:16:39","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T10:16:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/?p=1015"},"modified":"2012-05-17T14:20:35","modified_gmt":"2012-05-17T14:20:35","slug":"grandpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/2012\/05\/17\/grandpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Grandpa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3355.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1020\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3355.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3355.jpg 375w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3355-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I knew that when I walked on the plane to leave for Africa, that life would not be the same when I returned years later.\u00a0 How it would be different, I couldn\u2019t know.\u00a0 As much as I knew that reality, I chose not to dwell on it or I might have not walked onto that plane.\u00a0 So I should not be surprised by the grief of change.\u00a0 This morning my grandpa, whom I dearly loved, passed away.\u00a0\u00a0 I know this is not a final goodbye, but I will miss seeing him here on this earth.\u00a0 It is hard to not be with family during this time to help and grieve and remember.\u00a0 I desperately cling to the hope that as effective as prayers have been in my life, so might my prayers provide some comfort to my family as I am away.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t be there, but I can remember with everyone else the wonderful ways\u00a0 that this man impacted my life.<\/p>\n<p>Grandpa\u2026.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You were an amazing cook!\u00a0 Your hamburgers and chicken wings were famous in my world.<\/li>\n<li>You always took the time to make us kids our favorite drinks, special cherries and all!<\/li>\n<li>I remember the summers spent with you, swimming in your pool as you watched and laughed.<\/li>\n<li>Every time we came, you always had new pool toys for us blown up and ready.<\/li>\n<li>You were the best spades partner<\/li>\n<li>Your home was a refuge to me and those I love.<\/li>\n<li>I always ate better when I was with you than any other time in my life.<\/li>\n<li>You were a hard worker, who never gave up no matter what the task.<\/li>\n<li>Your real estate advice has made us wiser.<\/li>\n<li>The two weeks you spent getting our home ready before our marriage is treasured in my heart.<\/li>\n<li>You always had time to come down and help when there was need.\u00a0 My parent\u2019s house would not be what it is today without your hard work.<\/li>\n<li>Every night you got grandma her pills and milk, which was only one of the many ways you displayed your love for her.<\/li>\n<li>It has been amazing watching you grow and change as God softened your heart.<\/li>\n<li>You loved your grandchildren and always went above and beyond to make sure we were happy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1016\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1016\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0460.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1016\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0460.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0460.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0460-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1016\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Where we could always find you...at the Barbecue<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1021\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1021\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3834.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1021\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3834.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3834.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_3834-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1021\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Making amazing food<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1028\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1028\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1977.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1028\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1977.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1977.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1977-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1028\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You were a worker, willing to go on any trip that involved a work project. Even to such a challenging place as Haiti.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1019\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1019\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0936.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1019\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0936.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0936.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0936-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1019\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You always made great effort to come to Portland and see us<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1031\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1031\" style=\"width: 333px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3839.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1031\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3839.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3839.jpg 333w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3839-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1031\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You came camping with us, just to be with us<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1030\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1030\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3776.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1030\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3776.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3776.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_3776-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1030\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You always had a smile for us<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1029\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1029\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1996.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1029\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1996.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1996.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1996-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1029\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You were a blessing to so many<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1023\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1023\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1708.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1023\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1708.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1708.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1708-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1023\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You and grandma were an amazing team<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1022\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1022\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_4824.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1022\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_4824.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_4824.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_4824-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1022\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">You loved us and our children<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1025\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1025\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1876.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1025\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1876.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1876.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/DSC_1876-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1025\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We love you Grandpa!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1018\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1018\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0930.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1018\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0930.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0930.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0930-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1018\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">And already miss you<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1017\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1017\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0698.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1017\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0698.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0698.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/files\/2012\/05\/100_0698-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1017\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We are looking forward to the day when we will all be together again. 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