{"id":2959,"date":"2014-02-15T21:50:17","date_gmt":"2014-02-15T21:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/?p=2959"},"modified":"2014-02-16T16:36:23","modified_gmt":"2014-02-16T16:36:23","slug":"relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/joel-mcmartin\/2014\/02\/15\/relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

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The past two years in Africa have transformed my understanding of relationships and particularly my role in relationships. \u00a0When I was in the states relationships were easier and more natural\u00a0 as I rarely had to cross cultural barriers to form them.\u00a0 So I invest in the relationships that I was most comfortable in and in all honesty that I benefited from the most. \u00a0However if I functioned like that here I would be friends with no one (except other missionaries).\u00a0 Here getting to know people is just plain hard work, because it requires leaving my world and entering theirs. \u00a0As I have walked through this process the past two years and have worked hard to form relationships God has shown me that relationships were not ever supposed to be about me. \u00a0This is something that I always knew in my head, but I am starting to learn what that means in reality.<\/p>\n

Here are a few things that life has taught me about relationships…<\/p>\n