{"id":1602,"date":"2021-11-16T11:44:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-16T16:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/?p=1602"},"modified":"2021-11-08T11:53:45","modified_gmt":"2021-11-08T16:53:45","slug":"seeing-someone-out-of-their-normal-context-who-are-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/2021\/11\/16\/seeing-someone-out-of-their-normal-context-who-are-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Seeing someone out of their normal context &#8211; who are you?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized is-style-rounded\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1604\" width=\"443\" height=\"332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog.jpg 591w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog-125x94.jpg 125w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog-250x187.jpg 250w, https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/files\/2021\/11\/blog-338x253.jpg 338w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 443px) 100vw, 443px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve all been there &#8211; someone greets you as if they know, and they may look familiar but you can&#8217;t place them.  Where do you know them from?  Do you know them?  And then it dawns on you, perhaps with a little help from them &#8211; you <em>do<\/em> know them, but it&#8217;s from a completely different context.  If you had seen them where you usually see them, it would have been no problem.  But seeing them <em>here<\/em> just threw you off guard.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s often how I feel here, especially now.  I saw some of My People at a funeral the other day; they looked familiar, but I didn&#8217;t know where they were from.  I thought I knew, but when I went to that house the next day, the ladies there didn&#8217;t seem like they had seen me the day before. Hmm . . . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are other people that I&#8217;ve visited in a village several years ago now, and with my white skin they easily recognize me.  But . . . let&#8217;s just say I have a harder time recognizing all of them, especially when I now see them in the city.  Who are you and how do I know you?  I was grateful the other day when someone who obviously recognized me told me straight up where I knew her from.  Thank you!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides being confused when I see people I know out of context, the same happens with words.  My language helper probably gets rather frustrated when he uses a word I know, but it&#8217;s not in the same story or the same context and so I have no idea what it means anymore.  Sometimes he&#8217;ll then tell me, &#8220;A thing. A good thing and a bad thing,&#8221; and point to where I drew a happy face and a sad face.  Ah yes.  This word means &#8220;thing,&#8221; and I learned it when we were discussing the pictures on that page; I learned it in the context of &#8220;good thing&#8221; and &#8220;bad thing,&#8221; but logically it can just come as &#8220;thing&#8221; without a &#8220;good&#8221; or &#8220;bad&#8221; attached. (It doesn&#8217;t help that there are about 4 or 5 different words that are all pronounced almost exactly the same as the word for &#8220;thing,&#8221; and several have pronunciations that can change slightly based on context, sounding more or less like &#8220;thing&#8221; at any given moment.  I ran into one today, and through a bit of acting, I found out that one was the one that means &#8220;to climb or go up,&#8221; not &#8220;thing.&#8221;)  It&#8217;s similar to <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ethnos360.org\/susie-l\/2017\/02\/16\/mosaic\/\">what I posted a few years ago about languages being like a mosaic<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, for anyone you know who&#8217;s becoming part of a new community, you can pray that we can recognize people, even when we see them in an unfamiliar context.  And for anyone you know who&#8217;s learning a new language, you can pray that we can recognize words and grammatical constructions, even when we see <em>them<\/em> in unfamiliar contexts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve all been there &#8211; someone greets you as if they know, and they may look familiar but you can&#8217;t place them. Where do you know them from? Do you know them? 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