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Finding A Balance

January 5, 2016 by Joel and Andi

Balancing two worlds
Balancing two worlds

Christmas has been one of the hardest seasons for me to balance between our two world.  I don’t know why, but it has been the area where I found it hard to let go of my home world and embrace our host world.  There were so many memories wrapped up in Christmas day that Christmas day was vitally important to me and was a piece that I held on to tightly.  This year Joel challenged me to let that go.  Not to let go of the idea of traditions or the traditions of our home world, but to let go of Christmas day and to find a new way to live those traditions out while embracing the people people and culture God has called us to.  So this year we experimented and changed what Christmas looks like and for the first time since being here I feel like we found a healthy balance of our two worlds.

Here was a little of what Christmas looked for us…

It all began on Wednesday evening as we gathered together as women to prepare the meat for our Christmas Eve Church meal.  We started Wednesday cutting, cleaning and marinating a pig.  The next morning we met back early to cook the meat in a pot so that it would grill quickly in evening.  At the same time we cleaned, cut and seasoned 20 chickens.  We started at 8am and finally ended around 1pm.

Cooking up meat and chicken
Cooking up meat and chicken

That evening we headed to church for a celebration with our church of our saviors birth.

Joel and I brought out our new outfits for the celebration
Joel and I brought out our new outfits for the celebration
The kids and youth have been working together for months to prepare for this celebration
The kids and youth have been working together for months to prepare for this celebration
There was a skit
There was a skit
Verses memorize by each kid
The kids all recited verses
Dancing
I choreographed my first dance for the kids
They kids all did great
They all did amazing
A group from Central Africa sang and dance
A group from Central Africa sang and dance
Each person brought there offering
Each person brought there offering
And we worshiped together our King
And we worshiped our King together
We ended the evening with gifts for the kids of the church
We ended the evening with gifts for the kids of the church
Then it was time to Eat!
Then it was time to Eat!

Around 9:30 we shared dinner together.  It was truly a late – but glorious night.

The next day – Christmas Day – we woke up early and began cooking.  Here in Senegal one of the traditions is to share food with your neighbors on whatever holiday you celebrate.  If you remember on other holidays here we often get food from our neighbors, so now was our turn to share food with them.  This was the first year we took on this challenge, but I am so glad we did.

We cooked up 5 chickens
We cooked up 5 chickens
We then cooked up 10 pounds of thin noodles and sauce to go with the chickens
We then cooked up 10 pounds of thin noodles and sauce to go with the chickens

We divided the food up in 7 dishes and delivered them around to our neighbors.  It was a great opportunity to share with our boys why we were changing Christmas morning so that we could share this celebration with those in our neighborhood.

Then we ALL got dressed up
We delivered it ALL dressed in our finest.

We then loaded up the car, picked up one of our neighbors and headed our to our host families village to celebrate with them for the day.  The first few years we were here I convinced our host family to celebrate with us on the day after Christmas as I wasn’t ready to give up my Christmas day.  However this year we were ready to be there on this important day right alongside them.

Then it was time to head out to celebrate with our African family out at their village.
We visited those we know in the village
And at side by side with our family
And ate side by side with our family
The kids found sticks
The kids found sticks
And played games with the other kids
And played games with the other kids

We returned home late and tired, but really happy to have spent this day with our family and our neighbors.

The 26th, was our day together as a family
The 26th, was our day together as a family.
We had special gifts sent to us from America
We had special gifts sent to us from America

My mom had sent over crackers, cheese and other special treats that we enjoyed together.

However mostly we just enjoyed the day at home
However mostly we just enjoyed the day at home
Enjoying some rest and celebrating together as a family
Enjoying some rest and celebrating together as a family

We rejoice – because the savoir has come!  Merry Christmas!

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Comments

  1. Krissey Gilbertson says

    January 13, 2016 at 9:46 pm

    We needed to pick a missionary for my daughter’s AWANA book. God lead me to you. I am so excited that our family will be praying for you and your family. Thank you for allowing the Lord to lead you as you share the gospel with others. May Christ richly bless you and your family. Christmas is a time to love on others and share the provisions God has provided. I am so glad you were able to do that. Lots of love and prayers to you and your family,

    Love your family in Christ,

    The Gilbertson’s
    Shepherdstown WV

  2. Jerrilynn says

    January 12, 2016 at 5:44 pm

    How beautiful ? I pray for you all Gods favor and grace.
    You’re boys are so blessed to have you as their parents.

  3. Mandy Caley says

    January 6, 2016 at 6:22 am

    Great to read this, guys 🙂 It made me homesick for West Africa.

  4. Elisabeth says

    January 6, 2016 at 2:14 am

    Hi Joel and Andi, Your Christmas season sounds lovely. You celebrated two cultural traditions in such a unique and loving way, with new friends and church family and with your own small family. So many people have neither and are truly alone, even believers who at least have the Lord, still do experience great loneliness as this time of the year. Continue to inspire us with your rich blending of the old and new.

    Lovingly, Aunt Elisabeth

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