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“Wearing A Laplap” for Dummies

April 13, 2012 by Tom

All the women and a lot of men in our village can regularly be seen wearing an article of clothing called a “laplap.” A laplap is a wrap around skirt, roughly five and a half feet long and about three feet wide. Locally, it can be purchased in our provincial capital at the main market or even in some stores. They vary in colors and designs.

Obviously, seeing women wearing skirts is nothing new, but we’ve also grown accustomed to seeing men wear these things around. I don’t even notice now when I see a grown man walking around in a skirt. Even before we lived in the village, when we lived in a different province, seeing a man walking around in his laplap was a common occurrence.

Usually, around our village the men wearing laplaps are middle-aged or older. Its a fashion that seems to be vanishing as the younger generation continues to adopt western style dress.

Technically, I have my own laplap, but I’ve never worn it outside… It feels too weird. For one, like I mentioned above, usually the men I see wearing laplaps are much older. Also, up until recently I wasn’t even sure how to wear it. I had heard that there was a male way of wearing your laplap and a female way. Clearly, I didn’t want to walk around the village looking like a woman in my skirt!

Still, I thought it would be good to learn how to wear it, just in case there was ever a time I had the boldness to go for it. So, here are my findings:

Your “Official Guide to Wearing your Laplap: Tigak Edition.”

First, hold your laplap in both hands from end to end behind your back, level with your waist.

Second, take your right hand and bring that end of the laplap to your left hip.

Third, take your left hand and bring it around to near your right hip, allowing it to hold the end on your left hip in place.

Ok, this is where things get tricky.

Fourth, while using your right hand to hold one end of the laplap to your right hip, use your left hand to loosen a small center portion of fabric from your first stretch on your waist. Then using the end of the laplap in your right hand, wrap it around the center loosened fabric several times, while using your left hand to hold the center area.

Sixth, and finally, tuck the remainder of the end fabric into your laplap. If the two end of your laplap appear to be level at the bottom, you have successfully tied your laplap. Congratulations! If not, start over and repeat steps one through six.

As you can probably tell in the pictures, I’m not very good at it. Like I said, I have yet to muster the boldness to walk around the village in it!

There are also other ways that we have seen people where their laplaps, including this one I call The Caesar.  One guy in our village can often be seen sporting The Caesar.

The Where’s Waldo?

Apparently it doesn’t need to be cold out to wear a scarf.

The Pseudo Superhero

When we’ve seen this one, its been on kids.

The Headache

This one is usually accompanied by the Tok Pisin phrase, “Het i pen,” which loosely translated means, “My head hurts” and is followed by a request for medicine.

And there you have it.  You are now an EXPERT at wearing a laplap! 🙂

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Comments

  1. Diana says

    March 23, 2019 at 3:38 pm

    Oh! Oh! I can’t stop laughing. LOL..You’re so good, you remind me of how my brothers always tie their laplaps. New Ireland style. Ino rong yet!!

    Reply
  2. Bob Nyberg says

    June 6, 2012 at 7:15 am

    Too funny! Now Kinosi knows how to wear his laplap properly as well as improperly!

    Bob

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    • Tom says

      June 9, 2012 at 4:44 pm

      Lol, Bob. Somehow I don’t think Kinsoi is going to be too happy with a white skin telling him how to wear his laplap! 🙂

      Reply
  3. Paige Cisco says

    April 23, 2012 at 2:30 pm

    Awesome Captian America T Shirt Tom, Its very interesting how this laplap skirt thing fashion thing is interesting.

    Reply
  4. Tom says

    April 17, 2012 at 1:11 pm

    Thanks for the comments everyone! Yes, I do love Captain America. Angela- that is hilarious! I have yet to see that around here. Where did your parents serve? Eleanor- don’t worry, I haven’t forgotten about you… 🙂

    Reply
  5. Eleanor Bruce says

    April 17, 2012 at 9:01 am

    OK Tom…. I needed that laugh. Also…Mother’s Day is coming. I need my yearly picture of you. This year I’m requesting a laplap version. Is there a mother in law one?

    Reply
  6. Angela Fehr says

    April 17, 2012 at 8:34 am

    I once did a “laplap style” post on my blog from my days as a PNG MK! You’re missing my personal favourite style (also a guy style) – the “diaper” style where the narrow end is tied at the waist, then the long end is carried between the legs and then tied at the waist from the back. Don’t tell me no one thinks this look is “cool” anymore!

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  7. Jeff Schaap says

    April 14, 2012 at 6:31 pm

    I like that you are sporting the Captain America shirt the whole time.

    Reply
  8. Jared Y. says

    April 14, 2012 at 6:44 am

    Awesome job Tom! I love the laplap superhero one with your Capt. America t-shirt.

    Reply

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