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First, First, and First

September 13, 2015 by John and Asmara Anyan

Friday marked 4 weeks in Oklahoma and the halfway point of our practicum here. This month really has flown by in a flurry of school work, community living, and many “firsts”…

2. First time that I’ve seen a tarantula. It’s the class pet now, his name is Harry, and he’s only escaped once so far. We saw another one strolling down the road as we were walking home. That one now shares Harry’s cage and has been named Junior. Lovely.

Meet Harry.
Meet Harry.

2. First time that we’ve lived in such close quarters with another family. The Hartmans and we have separate rooms but share a living room/dinner table area and a kitchen. We also happen to share a love for coffee, dark chocolate, quiet evenings, and trash-talking each others’ favorite soccer teams (Germany vs Brazil). Our boys just adore Baby Daea and enjoy playing with her brother Tiras (favorite games: coloring, puzzles, yelling at each other through closed doors, and pretend kite-flying). It’s truly been a joy to be their neighbors!

The three amigos: Elias, Judah & Tiras
The three amigos: Elias, Judah & Tiras with their pretend kites

3. First time that Judah is drawing actual people and things! It’s so precious. Our door is covered with his artwork and I am amazed at how focused and long he just sits and draws or colors.

Judah with his chalk "dawcrads" (crawdads) drawing
Judah with his chalk “dawcrads” (crawdads) drawing
One of my favorites: first family portrait.
One of my favorites: first family portrait.
A lion and a giant worm
A lion and a giant worm

4. First time I am doing Pre-School with the boys. I took over as John’s mornings are usually filled with watching between 3-8 kids :). Talk about a busy morning! I’ve really enjoyed spending intentional time with our boys as we learn and play. Judah’s working on learning the letters of the alphabet, counting, shapes, and other skills like recognizing patterns or following detailed instructions. Elias is right beside him repeating everything Judah says and blurting out “B!” whenever there’s a letter or number he doesn’t recognize.

Elias looooves puzzles
Elias looooves puzzles
School time!
School time!

5. First time the boys bathe in a plastic bin. We’ve been spoiled until now with a proper bathtub in our Missouri home, but those days are over for now :).

Bath time fun
Bath time fun

6.First time we’re learning about a culture other than our own as a family. The boys say “hello” and “thank you” in Cherokee and Judah’s picking up other words from classmates as well. The other day he came running to me with a plastic bunny in his hand, yelling “tʃistu!!!” (rabbit in Cherokee). Last weekend was the Cherokee National Holiday with lots and lots of activities all around the town of Tahlequah, and the boys even got their very own bow & arrow.

Shooting practice with Dad
Shooting practice with Dad
Elias wasn't quite sure what to do with it
Elias wasn’t quite sure what to do with it
He's ready for battle with all his weapons!
He’s ready for battle with all his weapons!

7. First time that we’ve cooked for 25+ people. Thankfully, we cook and clean in teams, so there are lots of helping hands around. It’s quite the experience meal planning, grocery shopping, making meals, and cleaning for that many people!

Fun Food Friday! We are split up into 2 small groups and each week switch off cooking and cleaning duty.
Fun Food Friday! Each day has a food theme (like Taco Tuesday and Soup Wednesday) to make meal planning simpler
Judah and his friend Layla enjoying their food
Judah and his friend Layla enjoying their food
:)
🙂

8. The first and (probably) LAST time we’ll ever live in such a community setting surrounded by classmates/friends/our family in the faith. It’s good to remember to cherish these weeks of fellowship with these dear people whom we’ve shared life with for the last 2+ years while in training. Chances are we won’t see each other again on this side of heaven as we’re spreading all over the world. But what a reunion it’ll be :)!

S'more night with all the kiddos
S’mores night with all the kiddos. They truly enjoy being around so many of their friends each daỵ
This little guy will not just miss these special treats but also his little friends!
This little guy will not just miss these special treats but also his little buddies!

 

4 weeks down, 4 more to go! Thanks for being part of the journey!

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Comments

  1. Alisha says

    September 17, 2015 at 22:19

    Love this post 🙂 Love that Judah still draws Elias as a baby and labels him as one, haha! He’s doing better than Sophie though- she draws all her people with one eye still. I don’t know why because she always tells me she knows people have two eyes, haha!

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